Ughh...Can't STOP thinking about this guy?

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ok so there is this guy.

me and him...well we have messed around (not had sex just like makeout and stuff)

well we were all into it one day..and i told him i was still a virgin..so i didn't want to go further;

i don't remember his reaction...but for some STRANGE reason i keep regretting telling him...maybe it's that i feel he'll tell his friends.

im 15 he's 16....don't judge...or tell me stuff cause im youung..i know i am!



but anyways that day when i left he told me to call him...i called him.....2 weeks later...(this thursday)

he hasnt called since the day we kicked it.

well when i called him the phone rangg for a looonnnggggg time!

and then his mom answered and said he was at his aunts bar-be-que..it was around 8.



then i said ok..she said she'll tell him to call me...but he has'nt..

this has happend before we hung out that one time

i would call they would say they where going to tell him..but he would never call back.



and umm well MAYBE im jumping to conclusions but i feel

that maybe he does'nt want to talk or kick it with me no more cause i didnt leave him "SATISFIED" last time..he didnt tell me i didnt leave him satisfied..i just didnt give him what he wanted.



and maybe he wants someone experienced also...so maybe on the looonnnnnngggggg ring he told his mom to say he wasnt there(they have caller id)



and well i did that before to...told my mom to tell this person i wasnt here..when i was and well you all know karma is a b***h.

:/



please this has really been bugging me..cause of my conclusions..i feel sooooo depressed! thinkingg maybe he is avoiding me...please don't be rude...please.Ughh...Can't STOP thinking about this guy?
i would say he would just use you if you hooked up again im sorry that totally sucks but move on and find some other awesome guy- good luck:)
Not to burst your bubble, but it's possible he was using you. Since he didn't get what he wanted, and since you said you were keeping that way, he may be going to 'get some' from someone else. But I could be wrong.Ughh...Can't STOP thinking about this guy?
First of all, I respect that fact that you are a virgin. And if he's avoiding you because of that- then leave him! Find a guy who respects who you are and what you believe. =]
DON'T HAVE SEX! If he wants to have sex at 16 years old and if you get pregnant he'll probably leave you. If he wants to get mad let him be mad!



Hoped i helped.
well you shold stick with your virgin idea of yourself

dont lose it to that guy just b/c he wants someone more experienced (if he does)
forget him!!!
he probably just used you...sorry hun
You're young. Get over him. Find a better guy. Don't let it even bother you, it's not worth it.
The boy saw he was not going to get sex from you and has moved on hon.Sex was ALL he wanted from you and nothing more.Even if you had ,had sex with him, he still would have dumped you.Be glad you are not carrying this jerk's baby.Move on, you deserve better.
you can't put all your energy in someone who is disappointed that you are a virgin and didn't 'satisfy' them.

do you hear how ridiculous that sounds?! (:

I think you are to good for him, don't change your standards because he wants to have sex with you.

You can tell him, 'if how I feel and what I do isn't enough, I dont want you anyway'

girls dont realize that guys at that age are just looking to hit it and quit it.

You are a smart girl, staying a virgin, just stick it out.

if he doesn't call you back, you should realize he is not worth it.

and I know it's hard, im sure the guy is so sweet, and its not that easy to let go, but you will look back and say wow he was an a**.

I hope everything works out for you, and that everything get sorted it.

remember, listen to what you want, sometimes we get in a bad relationships so that we appreciate the next ones (: this time listen to your head, not your heart.

good luck!
Girl! I'm nt trying to b mean or rude or anything k? I feel lyk the guy doesnt respect u....I jst ended tis thing wit a guy tat ws lyk tat too n at first it hurts bc i liked him a lot! bt then i thought bout it n I ws lyk....hes a jerk n he doesnt respect me so y should i b upset of losing him. U should find sum1 new n 4get bout him!
Well, every guy is different. dome guys just go for girl for the sex, others for the relations or because they simply like you. ETC. but telling him your till a virgin is perfectly ok and that you dont want to go further! that's Great good for you for putting your self out there saying You dont want to have sex. Most guy when they ignore girls wont call txt back ETC. and i ant tell if he is or not because you haven't given enuf info on what hes doing. and he only wants your for sex, im sorry but **** him, hes a jerk for that, but like i said i cant tell if he is or. if you have school with him or any time you can see him, tell him up front i feel that you avoiding me and i really like you, and that you've tried to call him a number of times, and im sure hell understand, and dont be depressed think of the positive. that you know you had a good time, and that you WILL have another good time rather its with him or not.



I hope this helped you out! =D
Well if he didnt want to talk to you after you told him you didnt want to have sex then hes not worth it and he sounds like a jerk anyway and maybe just MAYBE his mother didnt tell him that you called you should just try calling again.



GOOD LUCK**
Well.. Some guys can be like that.. If they dont get satisfied they dont like you that much anymore. It almost makes them sound like ***hole. I'm glad you didnt having sex with him. Sex is NOT the answer.. Someone who just wants to have sex with you is not a true and perfect boyfriend. And if he wasnt sooo worried about it and he cared about you enough he would answer his phone but he hasn't. It sounds like he wanted you for sex.

Don't you agree with me? If he cared about you why wouldnt he call back or answer the phone? It sound's to me he don't like you that much.



Sorry that guy had to do that to you. Im also sorry I had to break it to you the hard way. If there was a better way I would definitely tell you but there is no other way... Sorry =/