So I met a guy this past weekend. It was a mutual friends birthday, and he introduced us. However I already noticed him because the second I walked in the room we made eye contact and it was magnetic. I don't think thats ever happened before to me that instantly. So I tried to play it cool.
I kept noticing he was looking at me for a while, So when I looked at him and made him aware I knew he was staring he flagged me over. He asked me for my number and we started talking a while at this bar. Then I began to mingle with people I knew and hadn't seen in a while.
He starting sending me texts, like "come talk to me" "your so sexy" and funny little ones about how our high school teams were rivals. So then everyone decided to go to our friends house when the bar closed. He had a few beers so I drove his car and a couple of our friends sat in the back.
Well I had so much fun with him. we completely hit it off..we got to my friends house and towards the early morning went into the br for a steamy makeout session. he tried to do more but I told him I just met him. But we kept laughing and having so much fun for the rest of the night. I havnt felt that kind of connection with someone in a while.
Then we all quickly realized there was going to be no place to sleep. so I offered to drive back to my apartment and him and his friend stayed over. well as we are getting into my apartment I get a text from someone telling me he has a girlfriend!
I confront him, and he admits it, and says "its an on and off thing" I told him I couldnt continue to kiss him, and thats all that was going to happen because I believe in karma and I just dont think its right.
He apologized and said I was one of the coolest women hes ever met in his entire journey of life and he hope that this wasnt a speed bump in something I really liked..I dont really even know what that means.
well when I woke up him and him friend were gone to work, and I had a text from him saying he had a lot of fun, and we wrote back and fourth a little and then left it as goodbye.
well now I cant get him out of my head. Im just wondering if I handled it well because he kept trying to kiss me, and I made him sleep on the couch and went to bed..Is he worth pursuing? Or should I just brush him off as a jerk and forget him..Confused...need some advice.?
Oh honey let him go. If he could cheat on the girl he's with to have "fun" with you then he'll do it to you too.
Think about it if you were his gf. How would you feel?
I like available guys only for pursuit.
You handled the situation well by not sleeping with him.
Wow if u had a connection with him talk to him and c if he is a cheater. If he is what a loser!!!!!!!!!!!!!Confused...need some advice.?
I do agree with you on how you tackled the situation. If we analyze it a bit we come to the conclusion that:
1. yes you had just met
2 things were moving fast enough
3 you heard he has a girlfriend.
To be fair on him as well he said: its an on./off. thing.
So lets say it is permissible to have him as a friend, just a friend; keep the communication but no intimacy. See how things progress and monitor his meetings with his girlfriend. Obviously do not get in the way or annoy him, just watch. The move on from there. You will get your answer on whether he is worth treasuring or whether he is worth dumping on your own merits.
You handled it very well actually. great job. don't pursue him and don't brush him off either, just put him in the back of your mind for a while. If he's still seeing his girlfriend then definitely don't pursue. but just wait and see what happens, again, you handled yourself very well, good job.
Hope that helped!
Good Luck!
well in my opinion it depends how you feel about him. If you feel as though there is a deep connection you need to talk to him about his so called "GIRLFRIEND. But if not then you all could just be friends, but thats it
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