I just feel so pathetic, why am I still upset about abusive, cheating ex?

I saw my verbally abusive cheating ex tonight at a bar in my small local town. I saw him with the girl he cheated on me with. It has been two months since we broke up. Two months ago I found out he cheated on me with the girl he is with now. She is 30 years old and he is 23. I just got home and started crying about seeing the two of them together.



It's not fair that he has someone to go home with, it's not fair that i am home alone. It's not fair that he abused me verbally for three years straight and now just can move on like nothing. He was my first love, my first everything. I hate that I live in such a small town. Right now I am a student at a community college. Moving away isn't really a option since my income is pretty low.



I just want to know how I can get through this. I feel so depressed. The world seems so unfair and unjust. I really wish he would get his karma. I am not the only girl he has hurt in the past, why is this guy allowed to get away with this? He would tell me all the time how much he loved me, wanted to marry me etc..but then at the same time accuse me of cheating, lying to him etc... I know I am better than him, but I feel so lonely and hurt.



Two months ago this guy was telling me he wanted to marry me, we were together three years and now he is in a relationship with this whorish girl who is way older than him. I just don't understand the world anymore. Can someone please enlighten me. Thanks :)I just feel so pathetic, why am I still upset about abusive, cheating ex?
the world is unfair and unjust and good people get hurt by the choices others make. u get through this by realizing what this guy is, if he abused u for years then u are lucky to be rid of him. its not about having someone to go home with its about finding and being with the right person in life. its not really about the world its about the morals and character of the man u chose to be with.
You know it's funny how it always seems to work out that way. The losers and users always have the breaks while the good are always dumped on. Sorry to say i don't have any uplifting words to make you feel better other then hopefully you will find that man who will treat you with the love and respect that you deserve.I just feel so pathetic, why am I still upset about abusive, cheating ex?
in 10 days, you will feel better. in a month, you'll feel allot better. you are not ready to date, but in a few months you might be. then remember how much fun 1st dates were (nerve racking, but fun). then 2nd dates and anticipation of 3rd dates. you WILL get him out of your head, but not tonight or tomorrow.
The old saying Time heals all wounds is true. I have been on the receiving end and it takes time. It will hurt you for a while. Part of the pain is caused by the feeling that you were scammed. Eventually, people do get what they deserve. It may take a lifetime - but it happens.
It's only been 2 months. It's been 11 months for me, and I'm just starting to feel normal. Of course, part of that is because he's in jail now and won't be hurting anyone anymore. It takes time. I know that's a cliche, but it's true.
thank your lucky stars you have no children to this shallow man and have to see him for the rest of your life as you raised them.you are free be free.
This is a bland new day..you are free of this person..celebrate life..
We Have all lived this Nightmare...It's time, Girl..to do something Nice for yourself..As you get older and wiser, you will learn that Life doesm't always turn out the way you expect..Have you seen the movie with Sandra Bullock..I think it is called..While you were sleeping...Rent the movie..it is delightful...Then take a bubblebath and decide you are going to be strong..move forward and stop dwelling "on what might have been" I just bet something Nice is around the corner...Good Luck....
I think your being pathetic,because your allowing yourself to be pathetic..Grab your knicker elastic %26amp; get yourself together girl..NO room in this life for the poor me's,especially in one so young..Think you

have had a lucky escape,i do..Two months ago he wanted marriage,

got scared you were going to say YES,so scarped big time..His loss

your gain..Forget about wishing he find anything,good or bad,save your

thoughts for you..Carry on with your schooling %26amp; excel @ it which i'm

sure you will,do given the added incentive..You say he was your first

everything,that will always occupy a special place in your heart,but it is

also a great foundation,to start building the rest of your life from..Experience is a great teacher %26amp; leveler..Like to leave you with this thought..Good people always finish last..Sure you have heard this..

But when we do finish it LASTS..

I apologise for the length of this answer,so sad to be a mere male@

times like these,makes me wish i could be somewhere else..

My very best wishes to you,in your schooling..Good luck with everything..Stay well %26amp; happy please..