Alright, so my brother had this girlfriend. They met in high school, and he's one year older than her. They were inseperable, always did most things together. Then they started getting an on-off-relationship. Then, once my brother got out of high school, they were still together. Then (for my brother getting out of high school) we planned to have a week 'celebration cruise'. A week before we were supposed to go on this cruise (my brother's girlfriend was coming, too) she told him she cheated on him. Numerous times, different people. Even a guy just a few streets down in our neighborhood! She said when she'd take lunch she would go in this guy's car and have sex with him, and then go back to school. My brother was absoultely heart-broken. This was his first true love, but he still wanted her to go on the cruise with him. He thought he'd have more fun with her than anyone else. Than once we got back, everything took a turn for the worse (the cruise was great, btw.) A few days after we got back, everything took a turn for the worst. They wouldn't talk for days, wouldn't see each other, nothing. It was like 2 weeks after that, that they called it quits. She dated this guy, broke up with him and came running back to my brother. Then, she moved up to Orlando, and had numerous pictures of her in her slutty Halloween costume, her with guys in bars, partying, drinking, etc. (all posted on her MySpace). When she came back she said she wanted to see my brother. They had rented a hotel room on the beach, and went there together all night. Then the next morning they made plans to hang out that night. My brother waited all day for her to call, and she never did. She said she was going to a bar with her parents. She only spent one day with my brother, when she was supposed to spend the whole weekend. Then, she told one of her friends the next week 'Don't tell ---- I'm coming down this week, last time I didn't get any time with my friends.' When she only spent half-a-day with him! They didn't talk to each other after that. Then, she had a long distance relationship with this guy named Cody, and she'd come back home every weekend (or every other weekend) to see him- and sometimes text my brother.
Then my brother met another girl, she's a convicted felon (who leads him on, and I think is a lesbian) and a complete *****. Then we went to the keys, and she came down with a friend. She came to the place we were staying at, went to a bar, then went out on our boat. And that was it.
My brother and convicted felon had a blowout.
Now, this weekened she came down again, found out Cody cheated on her 4 times (karma's a *****, eh?) and wanted to see my brother. He picked her up at about 1:30-2:00AM and they came back to the house and talked (had sex). The next morning they planned to hang out tonight (she'd also left her necklace here), he waited all day here. He went on his motorcycle, and she text'd him (she had gotten back from the hospital probably an hour or two before, she was visiting her dying grandfather.) She said she wanted her necklace, and asked if she could come by to get it. My brother called her once, she didn't pick up and then again and she said, "Oh, nevermind, hold on to it. I already have plans to go out tonight." She was going to meet up with a bunch of guys, all of my brother's friends (one whom she'd been 'talking' to- which is one of the guys she cheated on my brother with). My brother had broken up with his convicted-girlfriend for her. And he was shocked, sad, and heart broken.
WHY THE HEII DOES SHE ALWAYS DO THIS? She said last night, "I love you, and I always will." So why would she do this if she's in love with him so much?
SORRY IT'S SOOOO LONG!|||She was used to being with him yet she wanted variety. She dated him and then decided she wanted to see other people so she goes out and has sex with other guys. When they leave her or she has a dry spell she comes back to your brother because she knows he will never say no. He is enabling her and he needs to stop. She won't leave him alone unless he says no and completely ignores her. Believe me I know from experience.|||And the shorthand version of your question is?|||just tell her to move on|||Because women suck and do unexplainable things that don't make sense. They like to play games and f things up without even knowing it. That's why it's always more difficult for a girl or woman to get over guys than guys over girls.
Answer mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>|||Sounds like your brother needs to choose classier women|||She is just using him, sounds like just for the sex. She sounds like a slut, Your brother needs to move on with a nice girl.|||oviously she doesnt know wat she wants or wats shes doing. obviously shes not a good girlfriend since she keepss running off.
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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>|||Is she on drugs possibly? It sounds like shes a wild party girl. She probably has many guys she does this to and even if she really cares he doesnt care enough or she wouldnt hurt him this way. as long as your brother lets it go on it will he needs to move on. Good luck its sweet you care so much for him im the same with my brothers.|||she's obviously an a**hole...tell your brother to move on, she's just stringing him along so she can go out and meet different guys but also have someone "at home" to come to.|||She's a B*****. and your brother needs to get her out of his life cuz all she does is hurt him.|||She doesnt love him..she loves the fact that he's always there when she's ready to come back. it would do him so much good to get away from her completely and find a nice girl who isnt a felon. Poor guy...some girls are b!tches and are out to break hearts.|||Okay...so if this girl is such a whore then why is your brother still involved with her? Umm she cheated on him multiple times and then he should have figured out that SHES A WHORE AND ISNT THERE FOR JUST HIM. He sounds kind of ignorant, sure he's in love with her...but that doesn't mean he should keep sleeping her knowing that she's a slut and is just going to leave him again...uh...it's not just her, it's your brothers fault as well.|||This girl totally sounds like my ex boyfriend! You know what, to tell you the truth, this girl has GOTS TO GO. Seriously, I think your brother deserves a girl way better than this girl you're talking about. If it's been like a on-off relationship, it's never going to work out. The girl is doing this because whenever she gets lonely, she wants to feel loved and she knows that your brother would definitely fall for her tricks. That's why. I know it's heartbreaking, but girls and guys like that girl you're talking about and my ex boyfriend are out there. So YOU have to watch out, too okay? The only thing YOU can do, is to talk to your brother about it. And tell him that everything will be alright. There's no need to rush. Take baby steps and try and forget about that girl. He deserves someone way better. Good luck and I wish your brother happiness. (:|||Who knows why she does it - maybe substance abuse and poor judgment, or maybe a victim of early life sexual trauma that gets repeeated - symptom of post traumatic stress disorder. The more important question, in terms of helping your brother, is why does he chose such destructive romantic relationships.
|||Sex is a *****...
it creates an unnatural attachment.
Your brother needs to realize that he is better off without her. That he is a complete person without her, and that there are 'nice' girls who would probably love to go out with him. I would recommend that you urge him to get tested for STDs, as a positive test might make him realize the health dangers of having sex with a promiscuous woman.
I think that he is emotionally attached to her. (he lost his virginity to her, I'm guessing). He needs to ditch the *****, she's just going to keep using him and abusing him. He deserves more than that.
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