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ok so there is this guy.
me and him...well we have messed around (not had sex just like makeout and stuff)
well we were all into it one day..and i told him i was still a virgin..so i didn't want to go further;
i don't remember his reaction...but for some STRANGE reason i keep regretting telling him...maybe it's that i feel he'll tell his friends.
im 15 he's 16....don't judge...or tell me stuff cause im youung..i know i am!
but anyways that day when i left he told me to call him...i called him.....2 weeks later...(this thursday)
he hasnt called since the day we kicked it.
well when i called him the phone rangg for a looonnnggggg time!
and then his mom answered and said he was at his aunts bar-be-que..it was around 8.
then i said ok..she said she'll tell him to call me...but he has'nt..
this has happend before we hung out that one time
i would call they would say they where going to tell him..but he would never call back.
and umm well MAYBE im jumping to conclusions but i feel
that maybe he does'nt want to talk or kick it with me no more cause i didnt leave him "SATISFIED" last time..he didnt tell me i didnt leave him satisfied..i just didnt give him what he wanted.
and maybe he wants someone experienced also...so maybe on the looonnnnnngggggg ring he told his mom to say he wasnt there(they have caller id)
and well i did that before to...told my mom to tell this person i wasnt here..when i was and well you all know karma is a b***h.
:/
please this has really been bugging me..cause of my conclusions..i feel sooooo depressed! thinkingg maybe he is avoiding me...please don't be rude...please.|||Ur questions not 2 long. I can't tell u 4 sure what's goin through his mind but the way he's actin doesn't sound bad. Him tellin u2 call him was a good thing, but waitin 2 weeks may not have been a good thing. A guy told me 2 call him 1 time and I took 2 long 2 call back and he lost interest cuz he thought I wasn't interested. Just make sure next time u see him u don't ignore him, and call him again. Don't call 2 much 2 b stalkerish but I do suggest callin him again. And if he calls don't ignore it, even if u don't have time 2 talk just answer the phone and nicely tell him you'll call him later.|||hun dont worry about it... it happens to me alot it usually is that something that came up or his mom forgot to tell him... just dont worry about it i told my bf something that i would never tell him last night cause i was drunk but like i said just give him time ... hope it gets better hun|||he sounds like a butthole anyways.
forget about him.
if he's upset about that then you deserve better.|||okay if he wants a girl who lost it, then what kind of a guy i he? it is good that you have not lost it yet. but what i think you need to do is go up to him at school or something and be like why wont you talk to me? just try TALKING to him but over the phone. over the phone you cant see his expression so you don't know if he his lying to you or not. and is he a you know what? maybe he his avoiding you(im sorry) but don't go loosing your you know what for a guy. there are plenty of other fish in the sea.|||If he is a friend, he would still want to hang out with you even if you wouldn't have sex with him. If he was just hanging out with you in the interest of convincing you to have sex with him, he isn't much of a friend. He has probably decided you're not a good prospect for him to pursue for sex and that's all he was interested in. You should be glad he stopped calling. This frees up all your time to seek a real friend.
You are too young to be engaging in sex. He could be charged with statutory rape because you are so young.|||He probably was after you for sex! But when he realized you werent a tramp nor will u be pressured into doing it, he decided to go for those who have sex even though they are too young! I am very proud of you for not caving in!!!!|||i think that your right. he might be avioding you. i think you should just dump him. maybe he just wants to go out with you becase he wants to use you. and don't u see him at skool???|||If all a guy thinks you're worth is sexual satisfaction, then find another one! Another guy will want other things in a girl, like a good personality and an understanding that you don't have to go all the way -- and you'll feel good about satisfying him in other ways!|||ok do you go to the same school , if u do then you should be seen with one of his worst enemies kissing or making out or something then hell be all jealous and hell never ignore u again|||It's possible that he is kind of freaked out by you being a virgin. If he is, there isn't really anything you can do about it. Especially if he won't talk to you. Just relax and remember that he is obviously not worth it if he can't talk to you about whatever is bothering him.|||ok that was allot. you didn't do anything wrong, your virginity is yours.if he wonted to talk to u he would. just move on.|||I'm not going to say you're too young, because personally, physical age isn't that important... well to some extent, otherwise it's just creepy.. but yeah... as long as you're mentally comfortable, then it's fine.
If he's angry at you for not sleeping with him, then i don't think he's worth chasing. Maybe he just needs time to figure this out on his own, but if he truly liked you, he would respect your perfectly reasonable choices.
I'm not saying he definitely is mad at you though, he could just have thought that you were mad at him - you called him 2 weeks later, which does seem like you didn't want to talk to him.
Give it time, and try not to stress too much or read into things, it will only make you paranoid :)
Good luck with everything|||well...maybe you shouldn't have done da whole kinda sorta friends with benefits bcuz he doesn't really like you enough to ask you out...so he doens't feel da same way you do...wid out being in a relationship wid you, you made himi feel free to leave you as much as he wants.|||get rid of him hes mad you didnt put out im happy for you that you are still a vergin . hang in there its only one time you will be a women enjoy being a vergin !!!!!! dont rush that move on eit youre selfe!! you cant ever not be a vergin agine !!!!!!! so avoid him too hes not worth it girl!!!!!!!!|||ok well it seems that he is deciding not to talk to you for a reason that you dont understand and this upsets you... There could be many things that could cause this reaction from him too so it is very hard to say. It could be that he thinks your too young, and does not want to take advantage of you... i say this because i have felt the same way because my girlfriend is too 15 and me older. i dont know where you live, but age of consent is 16 in most states and therefore if he did engage in sexual relations with you he could be arrested... If he is ignoring you because you didnt leave him "satisfied" he is an asshole that is thinking with his head (not the one on his shoulders) and not with his heart and your feelings to him might not be the same as his towards you...|||Well when you told him that you haven't done it yet, maybe he is scared. Maybe he hasn't done it yet and he is a boy, that is what girl expect from boys. Maybe he wont know how to do it right, just give him some time and when you get the chance to meet him, try to really communicate and ask him what the problem is, if there is any..|||OMG UmmM MaYBe YOu ShOUld juSt FoRgeT abOut Him BecAusE wEll FiRSt OF aLL he jUSt WAnTed to PLay With YoU aNd yOU KNow THaT StRAigHT uP, AnD i THinK wHAt You DiD waS thE besT caUse If You WouLD OF gAve HIm WhaT he WAnTEd He WoULd OF stiLL lEfT yoU haNginG so JusT dONt CALL hIM nO MorE aND mOVe ON. . .|||Hey you need to know something. A relationship is not only based on SEX. There's many other things to it. If he really loves you then he will understand. Hat's off to you for knowing when to stop. You have not done anything wrong and dont be upset. From what i see he is only trying to get under your pants and not in your heart. Think gurl, do you want a guy like that. At the age off 15 you knew when to stop and you deserve a better person. Someone who will treat you better.. Dont be afraid off what might happen in the future. You can overcome this if only you look at this seriously and is he the kind of person you want. Someone who has been avoiding you just becasue you did not give it to him. It all comes down to what you want in life and your partner.|||RULE NUMBER 1: You should have told him you were a virgin before the very first time you two started getting physical. That way, he would have knew the deal from the very beginning therefore, he wouldn't be able to get mad if you weren't ready.
RULE NUMBER 2: If he is avoiding you just let him go baby! Because obviously he was thinking with his penis and not his heart. You want to be with someone who will love you regardless if you are trying to loose your virginity or not. Im a virgin and I have been with the same guy for 4 years. He's not a virgin but he is definitely willing to wait on me. That's what you need.
RULE NUMBER 3: If you feel like you just cant let him go. Pretend to. If you stop trying to call and trying to be around him and he really does care about you, most likely he will come to his senses and come back to you also. Act like you dont need him and see if he misses you. If he doesn't miss you or come back to apologize and talk to you, he is not worth your time anyway.|||your right it's almost the same thing.
listen,
Your probably like me and listening to people telling you to GIVE UP. is not really a option. you can only think about him
I get it. I'm going through it.
We all know there all plenty of fish in the sea...that's great. You wanna give this guy a chance go for it. Don't be obsessive or constantly nagging. Give him space...you did. PLay hard to get they loveee that yet being yourself and flirty.
Trust me, Im freaking too. You answered my question and I'm answering yours.
Feel free to I.m me. really! I always need someone to talk to, which is probably how you are too.
my IM is sammmmytee. if not. email me.
I'm having a hard time too. but you have to stay positive. All i think is that its gametime and you have to focus...if he doesn't like you for you though...he's not that one.
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